The top 8 female sexual fantasies
Sexual fantasies are a natural and healthy part of human sexuality, often reflecting our deepest desires and preferences. For women, these fantasies can be complex, offering insight into the rich tapestry of female sexuality.
The University of Quebec conducted a study where they asked women about their favorite sexual fantasies. In this article, you can read about the 8 most common fantasies of women:
- Sex in a romantic location
- Sex in an unusual place
- Taking part in oral sex
- Being masturbated by a partner
- Masturbating a partner
- Sex with a friend or coworker
- Being dominated sexually
- Sex with more than three people, both men and women
1. Sex in a romantic location
The fantasy of having sex in a romantic location is the most common, with 85% of the women responding positively to this. This can be somewhat expected because many women value romantic places a lot, and it can also be an ideal setting for having sex.
Whether it’s a beach at sunset, a tiny timber house in the mountains, or a luxurious hotel room, these places can provide an additional layer of pleasure.
2. Sex in an unusual place
Approximately 81% of the women who answered the questions said that they want to have sex in an unusual place. This is a very reasonable fantasy because everyone likes the spark and excitement of sex outside of the usual home scene or even the bed.
These places might include elevators, offices, or public restrooms. Especially the public places are very thrilling because a stranger can step in at any time, so the partners must continuously be aware of the opening doors or people walking nearby.
3. Taking part in oral sex
Oral sex is also a common fantasy for many women, reflecting a desire for intimacy and mutual pleasure. 78% of the respondents chose this option, highlighting the importance of trust and connection between partners.
The answers also highlighted that it is equally important to provide oral sex to the partner and receive it from him. Participating in this type of sexual foreplay can strengthen the connection between parties, building up trust and laying the foundations of a long-term relationship.
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4. Being masturbated by a partner
The act of being masturbated by a partner is often underrated in everyday life, yet it is also an important part of sexuality. The participants of the survey confirmed this, as 71% of the women chose this answer.
When a woman is stimulated sexually by her partner, it is also about taking care of each other. The partner must continuously follow the reactions and signs of the woman, making the masturbation slower, faster, more intense, or softer.
Many women appreciate this level of care, and it is no wonder that so many of them marked this on the survey.
5. Masturbating a partner
Conversely, the fantasy of masturbating a partner places women in a more active and controlling role. This fantasy can be empowering, allowing women to explore their partner’s body and responses.
Giving pleasure is equally important as receiving it, which helps us understand why 68% of the participants chose this option.
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6. Sex with a friend or coworker
The fantasy of having sex with a friend or coworker indicates that women fantasize about intimacy outside of their marriage or partnership. The fact that this is forbidden can provide more pleasure and excitement, and this is most likely why 68% of the participants in the survey answered this way.
It is widely known that this fantasy is one of the strongest among men, and now it turns out that it is equally important for women as well.
7. Being dominated sexually
The quality of sex is one of the most important things in a relationship, so it is no wonder that 65% of the surveyed women said that being dominated sexually is one of their strongest fantasies.
Domination means control over the partner and often involves very intense and satisfying sex. Consensuality is important; only this way can the act be enjoyable for both parties. This fantasy often involves elements of restraint, such as bondage or role-playing, and can be a way for women to explore different aspects of their sexuality.
Domination can also strengthen the trust and connection between both parties, as they reveal their deepest dreams and desires to someone very close to them.
8. Sex with more than three people, both men and women
Group sex, involving more than three people, is a fantasy that reflects a desire to try out every aspect of sexuality, including oral, vaginal, and anal sex, as well as participating in oral sex in both directions with more men and women.
The forbidden experience of having sex with more men is very different from everyday life, and trying out sexual activities with women is again something not often available. Surprisingly or not, 58% of the surveyed women chose this answer, which shows that everyone wants to try something new in sexuality at least once in their life. This desire is so strong that 6 out of 10 women are dreaming about it.
What we have learned from this survey
Real women have real desires, and their most common fantasies cover almost all areas of sexuality. From the above-mentioned eight fantasies, we can learn that among the most obvious ones, like sex in romantic locations, there are more complex fantasies as well.
Seeing that giving pleasure orally or in another way to their partner is very important to women shows that these ladies want to give something valuable to their partner. And in most cases, it is even more important to them than receiving something for themselves. On the other hand, fantasies that involve group sex with other men and women indicate that there is something wild inside everyone, and we should take care of these aspects as well, to live a fulfilling sexual and everyday life.