There are certain things that people who are thinking about visiting a sex club need to know. The sexworkers and the establishments themselves have certain written and unwritten rules that you want to learn. Following these guidelines will ensure a better experience when visiting a sex club.
Whether you are a first time sex club visitor or if you have already been a few times, you are probably going to learn a few new things from this article.
Avoid getting too close to sexworkers in a sex club
When it comes to sex clubs, the girls that work there are money oriented most of the time. This means that there really isn’t much of an emotional attachment to their clients, thus getting too close and personal with them is pointless. You don’t want to establish a relationship of any kind with the women; you simply go there to have fun and score in return for money.
Talking about a variety of different subjects is recommended, but you want to avoid personal questions, such as their relationship status, private information and generally deep subjects. Most of these girls have a boyfriend figure in the sex club. This means that you don’t want to get into those conversations, as there is literally nothing good that can come out of it.
Asking for private meetings is also quite a bad idea and you will want to avoid asking girls that you meet at a sex club out. Considering their line of work, the relationship would be a very costly one and some people are having a hard time establishing an emotional attachment to sexworkers. This is always a bad idea and you should not be emotionally attached to women who work in sex clubs. Falling in love with them is the worst thing that you can do. If you are the type of person who falls in love easily, avoid sex clubs in general. As I’ve said, you go to a sex club for a one-night stand.
Another thing that you will want to avoid doing is trying to talk the girls out of being sexworkers. This really isn’t your job and they must have a reason for choosing this line of work. There are many who choose to work in a sex club because they need the money. Others simply like meeting strangers and having sex with them. Of course, the money is always a factor and we can’t deny this fact.
Talking about rival sex clubs is the last thing that you will want to do. Even if the girls do not mind this, if the management of the establishment hears about it, you are going to be immediately thrown out. Just like with any other business, they do not tolerate any talk about their competition.
When it comes to talking to the girls and different subjects that you approach, the most important thing that you need to remember is that you want to avoid getting too personal. Talk about recent happening, ask the girls where they are originally from and go from there. The possibilities are endless; you just have to keep the conversation general. It’s not like the girls are going to start talking about their boyfriends or how bad it is for them.
Avoid being rude and disrespectful in a sex club
Generally in life, the more respectful and polite you are, the better your chances are of getting what you want. This is true for sex clubs as well and being rude or disrespectful will surely not help, but it might get you into a lot of trouble. Not only that the girls do not appreciate rude customers, but the management of the sex club is not going to like it either. They do not care if you have the money, being an ass is something that you will want to avoid doing if you want to stay in the club.
Another disrespectful thing many clients do is aggressively asking for services that the girls specifically said no to. There are certain things that some girls do not want to do. For example, there are many who refuse to have sex without a condom, which is totally understandable. This is something that you need to understand too and leave it be. If you do not like this, you can go to another sexworker or another sex club.
If we are already talking about the services that the girls are offering, another thing that you want to avoid doing in a sex club is trying to negotiate the price. This is one of the worst things that you can do, as it is utterly disrespectful to bargain for the girls’ bodies. Usually, this also has an immediate impact on the quality of the services that you are going to receive as well as the mood of the particular girl. The management of the sex club doesn’t appreciate this either.
Lastly, you don’t want to interfere with sexworkers who are already with their clients. If you see a girl talking to a guy at the bar or anywhere else, do not walk up and start chatting. You are going to be the third wheel and neither of them is appreciating your presence. Go and find another girl that is currently free.
Anything that may be considered disrespectful should be avoided in a sex club. Being nice to the girls and the staff can get you a long way and you are surely going to be treated differently than rude clients. Gentlemen and kind customers are a breath of fresh air, as there are many jerks visiting sex clubs around the world. Don’t be one of them.
Avoid being in bad condition when visiting a sex club
Let’s start off with hygiene. Smelling of body odor when paying for sex is kind of a disgusting thing and not only that the girls do not like it, but you seem like a cheaper person too. In general, every licensed sex club has some sort of a shower area where you can quickly clean yourself before and even after the session in the room. Even if you didn’t have time to take a shower at home, you can do it in the establishment.
The other thing that we need to touch on is being intoxicated. Either being drunk or on some sort of drugs is an immensely stupid and bad idea. If someone goes to a sex club totally wasted, the girls (and in some cases even the staff) will take advantage of the situation. This cannot be considered stealing, as drunkards gladly spend a lot of money on additional services or more drinks and tips. This will result in a very expensive evening that you are going to regret the next day.
Drugs are prohibited in all sex clubs and you want to avoid talking, offering or asking for them. This is not the place where you want to buy any sort of drugs and it isn’t the place where you want to take them either. Being high out of your mind is just like being drunk, but worse. While alcohol is legal, all drugs are illegal, so not only that you might piss off the management, but the local authorities too. Don’t ever bring drugs to a sex club and never take them before visiting a sexworker.
In addition to being easily taken advantage of, there is also the high probability of you not being able to properly perform while with the girl. Just imagine giving the girl the money and not even being able to have sex with her. She is not going to give the money back out of sympathy and you will lose your investment.
When visiting a sex club, you will want a clean body and a clear mind. Alcohol and drugs can cloud your judgment and they can make you an easy target. On the other hand, bad hygiene can simply make you undesirable for the sexworkers and you will get far worse services than what a clean and good smelling client would. Have some common knowledge and avoid doing these things when visiting a sex club.
Avoid accepting extra services in a sex club
Don’t get me wrong, some extra services are amazing, but many girls in sex clubs try to get the most money out of each client, so they think of unnecessarily pricey services and offer it to them. You need to remember that you do not have to accept these services and you can simply deny them. The most common thing sexworkers like to do is team up with their friend and offer a trio or threesome. Basically, if you go for these offers, you are paying for two girls instead of one. If you went to a sex club specifically to have a threesome, then go ahead, but do not accept services that you do not want.
Some girls even try to force sex without condom or any extra services just so they could make a few extra bucks. This should be a red flag and you should tell them not to do this because you are not interested. Of course it is totally okay if they simply mention that it is a possibility too. If they are persistent with it, you are better off finding another girl.
On your travels to sex clubs you will meet many girls who want to take as much money from you as they possibly can. You need to be careful and only go for services that you really want. If you accept certain things out of peer pressure, you will be a lot poorer by the end of the night.
These are some of the most important things that you will want to avoid doing when going to a sex club. Following these tips should make your experience a lot better and you should have a good time with a sexworker. There are many other things that you will learn on the go and there are also some local rules that sex clubs might have, depending on where you are in the world. Always try to do some research before you go or simply read or ask the rules in the sex club when you are there.
If you successfully follow our guidelines and avoid doing certain things in a sex club, you will be pleasantly surprised at how enjoyable these establishments can be.